Joseph on helping me to become a better helper
Watch yourself with love, watch yourself in what you're doing - give yourself love when you're talking to people. Just stand back a little bit and just see the majesty of what you are doing. He says where you are at the moment in helping people - you are moving on but you're not letting so much more Light come around you. This is inevitable in a human form.
He says this is nothing you are doing wrong, absolutely nothing, but now is the time to allow this extra light and energy, because there is this extra light that will come for you, has got the wisdom you have inherited for many lifetimes, many lifetimes he says. And that's your bank that you can bring that wisdom through - and you're going to be using these new skills.
He says for all the lives that you have banked this wisdom is now. You can draw on that, as you have done in other lives. But he says now you are at a stage where this much larger bank of wisdom is needing to be drawn on. And when you are talking to people you may certainly put a cross with you. This is a lovely old symbol the cross - and you may put that with you to allow you just to stand back and watch yourself receiving this. Because there is so much intellect from you that has been removed while you are counselling people, and you need this new wisdom to come in because it is yours, and then much more help will flow.
You will see much clearer levels of helping people. Much clearer levels of helping people, because you'll have this energy to pass across to them. It will be a lovely gift. He says you've done this from past lifetimes to bring it through. It's standing back, and just while you're there and someone's talking. Picture yourself where you are and then watch the light come in the back here (points to back of the head). He says you can ask for the bit from the bank to help this person. This is much stronger than you've ever asked before, much stronger than you've ever asked before.
But it is about walking towards this responsibility step and it will disappear when you get there. Keep this picture in mind because this is the border of your horizon - and walking with confidence towards it will make it disappear. He says the road will broaden like that for you (open arms) at the moment you are walking along like that (narrow, straight arms) and there are blocks in the way. And as you walk along this road don't even see the blocks now, They will be there, that's humanity, but the road will broaden like this until it surrounds you.
This is Joseph talking to me about how I can best help others with my counselling work in the 1990's. Although it may seem personal, it is in fact universal in its application, as most of Joseph's ideas are.
As we help others, we start at first in a prescriptive way, giving them a solution to the problem we have diagnosed intellectually. As our helping skills develop a more loving and encouraging role, we come to realise that the best help for everyone is within them, and our job is to help draw this out. Our role is to help people make choices for their own life. Our input is just that - ideas to put into the melting pot, or discarded, with their own ideas of what their love would do.
We have much wisdom to draw on, which is based on our experiences in other lives and times. It is always available to us at our request, and is easily discovered when we face a problem with this question "What would my love do now?". My love is who I am, and it will always give the best answers if we listen carefully after asking.
In fact the best answer of what to say maybe to simply listen, and encourage more and more from the other person......
As we take our intellect out of the process and the "ready made answers we think we know", and let our love choose, we find a completely new and creative solution can emerge. Often with great joy in the finding of the answer.
We are each a unique and special part of (our) god..............and beginning to remember this for the person you are helping can often be the insight, that helps provide a solution, to many a problem.
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